Again... someone i know since young has left the world

some of my frenz might know who he is, might have seen him before when coming to my house...
he is not very old... but he has been fighting with several illness for a long time
and 2 days ago,
he had left, in search for some comfort
though i think it's better this way
but i do feel shock when mummy told me about it

had know him since very young...
from what i know,
he is someone who is not close to his family as he left them when he is young
he got a bunch of friends... but in my perspective, they're all 酒肉朋友(there's such a word ritee)
coz i only see them around when he is giving a treat...
in the past, he used to be quite rich, but he spend all his money on food, alcohol, entertainment, taxi and giving treats to frenz around him...
perhaps he feel that it's a way to make frenz... perhaps he know he's lonely...
or maybe he has no family for him to support, he sees no reason in saving the money...

but i guess he never expect to have many different types of virus multiplying in his body...
at the later stage of his life, he did not much much money left... and so, it's logical that those frenz who were ard him before are no longer ard him... though few of them still keep in contact with him... and on that day when he bid farewell to the world he has been living in for ard 40+ years, to the doctors and nurses, to the smell of the hospital he has been living for quite some time, to those medicines and pipes... etc... at that time, there are only 3 frenz supporting him...

he struggled hard...
but eventually...
i guess he feel meaningless to live in this way...

he passed away... with no funeral ceremony
however, his family has arranged the cremation




life is so unpredictable...
u might be healthy like nobody's business nw...
but you do not know what will happen in the future
so... i really feel the importance of living your life to the fullest
go pursue what you desire, have no regrets!
treasure people around you, especially your family...
in his case,
despite leaving his family for a long time...
they are still there to help you in the very end
spending lotsa money and time with his frenz...
they disappear all of a sudden when you need them most

of coz,
i'm not referring that all frenz are like this...
definitely, there are frenz who will stay beside you for life
but
i wanted to stress the importance of family...

thus,
it is vital to treasure your family...
even though you're not in close term with them,
but they still play an important role in your life...
in any part of your life...

cherish them and all the memories shared together with them...




I love my dearest daddy, mummy and beloved baobao!!!!!!
they are the most important people in my life =)