In this world, there are many different types of people with different character, personality, thinking, lifestyle, background, etc... It is not anything easy to accomodate and satisfy to the needs and expectations of different individuals. The simple intention to help may be interpreted wrongly... it may also be considered as an offend... No one really knows what others are thinking and feeling unless they were being told. However, the possibility of telling someone about your thinking and feeling is not high; as you are afraid that you might offend them. In this case, what should we do to satisfy and gain self-satisfaction? Seriously, I've got no idea as I'm always stucked in this situation... =(